Ndingamulole bwanji mwamuna wanga kuti agwirizane nane
Kukulitsa malingaliro achikondi pakati pa okwatirana, m'pofunika kuti mkazi asamalire zofuna za mwamuna wake ndi zomwe amaika patsogolo m'moyo wa banja. Zokonda zogawana komanso kumvetsetsana mozama ndi maziko ofunikira a ubale wachikondi ndi wokhazikika. Njira zogwirira ntchito kuti mukwaniritse mgwirizano wauzimu ndi wamalingaliro ndi:
ulemu
M’banja, kulemekezana ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri chimene chimathandiza okwatirana kukhala okhutira ndi osangalala. Pamene mkazi amayamikira mwamuna wake ndi kumchitira ulemu, iye amathandizadi kukulitsa chikondi ndi mgwirizano muukwatiwo.
Ulemu umasonyezedwa m’zochita zingapo, zonga ngati kusamalira malingaliro a mwamuna, kusamala kusamukhumudwitsa, ndi kuyamikira umunthu wake popanda kupeputsa kufunika kwake. Tinthu tating'onoting'ono timeneti timapangitsa mwamuna kumva kuti amayamikiridwa komanso kuti ndi wofunika, zomwe zimawonetsa bwino ubale wonse.
M'pofunikanso kuyamikira ndi kulemekeza maganizo otsutsana, makamaka panthawi ya mkangano waukulu, chifukwa izi zimathandiza kumanga milatho ya kukhulupirirana ndi kumvetsetsana.
kudalira
M’maubwenzi a m’banja, nsanje ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zimene zingawononge bata ndi chimwemwe chogawana. N’kofunika kuti mkazi ayesetse kupanga mlatho wa kukhulupirirana ndi mwamuna wake, kusonyeza kuti amalemekeza chinsinsi chake ndi kumdalira kotheratu.
Ndikofunikira kumupatsa chithandizo ndikukhala gwero la chitetezo kuti atembenukireko panthawi ya kufooka kapena kukaikira, kupyola malire a kukhulupirika ndi kuwona mtima. Mwamuna ayenera kuganiza kuti akhoza kufotokoza zomwe amaopa ndi zolephera popanda kudandaula kuti zidzachepetsa mtengo wake pamaso pa mkazi wake.
Kumveka bwino
Maubwenzi a maanja amakhudzidwa ndi zovuta zambiri zomwe zingabwere chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa kulankhulana ndi kumvetsetsana. Ndikofunika kuti mkazi azimvetsera mwamuna wake mwachangu kuti alimbikitse kumvetsetsana.
Ayeneranso kusamala posankha njira zolankhulirana zomwe zimagwirizana ndi khalidwe la mwamuna wake kuti atsimikizire kuti maganizo ake afika kwa mwamunayo bwinobwino.
Kuti pakhale zokambirana zopambana komanso zolimbikitsa, ndikofunikira kuyankhula modekha ndikupewa kufuula, kulingalira ndi kumvetsetsa zolakwa za winayo, kuphatikiza pakufunika komvekera bwino komanso moona mtima polankhula popanda kumveka bwino kapena kusamveka bwino.
Sonyezani kuyamikira
Mkazi akamayamikira mwamuna wake, ubwenzi wawo umalimba. Mkazi angapereke chiyamikiro ndi chiyamikiro kwa mwamuna wake panthaŵi yabata, kaya ndi chifukwa cha mikhalidwe yodabwitsa imene ali nayo, ntchito zimene amamchitira, kapena mkhalidwe wake wachifundo ndi wowolowa manja. Angagwiritsenso ntchito kulemba ngati njira yokonzekera ndi kufotokoza maganizo ake bwino.
Chisamaliro kuzinthu zazing'ono
Kusamalira mfundo zosavuta za m’banja kumawonjezera chikondi ndi chikondi. Kugawana nthawi monga kudzuka m'mawa kuti mukamwe khofi limodzi ndi kukambirana za zolemba zawo kumalimbitsa mgwirizano pakati pawo.
Kuthera nthaŵi pamodzi, kaya panja kapena pochita zinthu zina, kumakulitsa chikondi chimenechi. Mauthenga afupiafupi omwe amatumizidwa panthawi ya ntchito amasonyeza kulakalaka ndi kuganizira za winayo, zomwe zimakulitsa malingaliro abwino pakati pa onse awiri.
Kuumirira kuphika kwa mnzanu, ngakhale popanda chidziwitso, kumasonyeza kufunitsitsa kumusangalatsa ndi kumusamalira, pamene kuyesetsa kukhala maso kuti agone naye usiku, ngakhale atatopa, kumasonyeza chikhumbo chogawana nawo mphindi iliyonse komanso amadzaza ubale ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro chochulukirapo.
Kusamalira maonekedwe
Ndikofunika kuti mkazi asamalire ukhondo wake ndi kukongola kwake, popeza izi zimathandiza kuti ubale wake ndi mwamuna wake ukhale wabwino. Izi zikuphatikizapo kusankha kusamba tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osamalira thupi ndi fungo lokoma, kuwonjezera pa kukongoletsa zovala zake m'njira yokoma ndi yokongola.
Mvetserani ndi kumvetsera kwa iye
N’kofunika kuti mkazi azimvetsera mwatcheru mwamuna wake akamalankhula naye ndipo ayenera kupewa kuchita zinthu zina monga kugwedeza mutu.
Kumvetsera mwachidwi kumathandiza kuchepetsa nkhawa imene mwamuna angakhale nayo ndipo kumalimbikitsa mtendere wamaganizo pakati pawo.
Komanso, mkazi ayenera kusiya zinthu zina zimene zingamusokoneze, monga kulankhula pa foni, kuonera TV, kapena kuwerenga pamene iye akulankhula. Kusoŵa chisamaliro kungapangitse mwamuna kudzimva kukhala wonyalanyazidwa ndi wonyozedwa, zimene zingachititse kuzizira kwapang’onopang’ono kwa unansi wamaganizo pakati pawo.
Kuwongolera bwino
Kuti apeze chimwemwe m’banja, m’pofunika kuti mkazi azichita zinthu mwanzeru pa nkhani za m’banja ndi kusamalira ndalama, kupeŵa kuchita zinthu mopambanitsa ndi kusamala kuti asawononge. Ndi bwino kuti mkazi azithandiza mwamuna wake komanso kumuthandiza pa nthawi ya mavuto a zachuma.
Zongochitika zokha komanso zosachita kupanga
Kungochita zinthu mwachisawawa ndi khalidwe limene limasonyeza kuti munthu amatha kufotokoza maganizo ake mwachibadwa ndiponso mwachidule, popanda kutengera khalidwe ndi kalankhulidwe kake.
Khalidwe limeneli limaonekera m’zochita za mkazi pamene akusonyeza mbali yake yachisawawa ndi kumwetulira kowona mtima kapena mwa kuchititsa mkhalidwe wachimwemwe ndi kuseka m’malo mopambanitsa popanda kukokomeza. Komanso, mwamuna amasangalala akamaona mkazi wake akuchita zinthu mwachisawawa, kusonyeza makhalidwe ake enieni popanda kuchita modzionetsera.
Yesani zinthu zatsopano
Mayi ali ndi mwayi wofufuza zinthu zosiyanasiyana zimene amachita ndi mwamuna wake, monga kulembetsa maphunziro okhudza kuphunzira zinenero zosiyanasiyana, kuphika, ngakhale kuvina. Zosankha zikuphatikizanso kuyendera malo omwe sanawonepo limodzi.
Zonsezi zimathandiza kukonzanso chizoloŵezi cha tsiku ndi tsiku pakati pa okwatirana ndikuwonjezera malingaliro awo aunyamata ndi nyonga. Zochita izi zimavumbulutsa mbali zatsopano za umunthu wa wina ndi mzake, kukulitsa kumvetsetsana ndi kulimbikitsa mgwirizano wawo.
Onetsani kuyamikira kwa awiriwa
Chimodzi mwa maziko ofunika kwambiri omangira ukwati wolimba ndi wachimwemwe ndicho chakuti mkazi asonyeze chiyamikiro chake kwa mwamuna wake m’njira zosiyanasiyana zimene zimagwirizana ndi umunthu wake.
N’zotheka kuti mkazi asankhe kupereka mphatso zing’onozing’ono, monga ngati maluwa a maluwa, kapena kutumiza mauthenga osonyeza chikondi ndi chisamaliro tsiku la ntchito lisanayambe.
Angakhalenso wofunitsitsa kuchita miyambo imene imapangitsa mwamuna wake kudzimva kuti ndi wofunika ndiponso woyamikiridwa, ndipo zimenezi zimalimbitsa maunansi a maganizo pakati pa okwatiranawo ndi kumakulitsa malingaliro a kukhala ogwirizana ndi kusamalana.
Siyani malo olakalaka
N’kothandiza kwa mkazi kupatsa mwamuna wake mpata wopezanso nyonga yake mwa kukhala kutali ndi iye, monga ngati kupita kokacheza ndi mabwenzi kapena achibale kumalo ena kunja kwa mzinda. Kutalikirana kwaumwini kumeneku kumathandizira kulimbitsa ubale pakati pa okwatirana awiriwo, popeza kukhudzika ndi chikondi kumabuka chifukwa cha izo, zomwe zimakonzanso chikondi ndi kuyamikirana pakati pawo.
Konzani zakudya zokoma
Mwamuna amakonda kudya zakudya zophikidwa kunyumba, makamaka zimene mkazi wake amazikonda, monga zinthu zimene amakonda, monga maswiti kapena kukonza chakudya chamadzulo chachikondi.
Kupereka mphatso
Mphatso zomwe mkazi amapereka kwa mwamuna wake zomwe sizikukhudzana ndi chochitika chilichonse chapadera ndi njira yabwino yowonjezeramo mkhalidwe wodabwitsa ndi kuyambiranso ku chiyanjano.
Mkazi angasankhe mphatso yosonyeza kuyamikira kwake ndi chisamaliro chake, monga ngati kumusankhira malaya okongola amene amagwirizana ndi ntchito yake, kapena kugawana naye nyimbo zimene amakonda, kapena angayambe kuchitapo kanthu kuti amve. onerani kanema omwe onse awiri amakonda limodzi.
Wonjezerani maulalo
Ndikofunika kuti awiriwa ayesetse kumanga ndi kulimbikitsa ubale wawo kudzera mukulankhulana mosalekeza m'malingaliro ndi mwanzeru. Kupatula nthawi yokambirana ndi kugawana malingaliro pakati pawo kumathandizira kumvetsetsana kwawo ndi ntchito zolimbitsa ubale. Izi zimathandiza kukulitsa chikondi ndi kukopana, kupangitsa ubalewo kukhala wozama komanso wokhazikika.
Kodi ndi mawu ati omwe amapangitsa mwamuna kukonda mkazi wake?
Pali ziganizo zambiri zosonyeza chikondi ndi kuyamikira, kuphatikizapo:
- Ndimakunyadirani kwambiri.
- Mukhale duwa kwa ine lomwe silifota m'munda wa moyo wanga.
- Palibe wina wonga iwe m'maso mwanga.
- Ndimakonda mawu anu ndi momwe mumanditchulira.
- Pemphero langa ndikuti mukhalebe chuma changa.
- Inu ndinu mzati umene ndimatsamirapo.
- Kukhalapo kwanu kumandipatsa chilimbikitso.
- Ndikadafotokoza kuti ndimakukondani, simungakhulupirire.
- Ndinu ngwazi munkhani yanga.
- Nthawi zonse sinthani zomwe mumachita.
- Mulungu adzakulipirani pa chilichonse chimene mukuchita.
- Pemphero langa ndi lakuti muthandizidwe nthawi zonse.
- Zikomo, chikondi chanu chimalemeretsa moyo wanga.
- Ndi kukongola kodabwitsa bwanji komwe kumawalitsa maso.
- Nthawi zonse mukhale nyali yowunikira njira yanga.
- Inu mumakhala duwa la mtima wanga lomwe silifota.
- Chiyembekezo changa n’chakuti tizikhala limodzi popanda kupatukana.
- Chisangalalo chomwe ndili nacho pafupi ndi iwe sichingafotokozeke.
- Mukhale wanga nthawi zonse ndipo kukhalapo kwanu kukhale kwanga.
- Inu ndinu mtsogoleri wa mtima wanga ndi mfumu ya moyo wanga.
- Ndiwe wamtengo wapatali komanso wamtengo wapatali kwa ine.
- Chikondi chanu chimadzaza mtima wanga ndi moyo wanga.
- Nthawi popanda inu imataya kuwala kwake ndipo imakhala yosapiririka.
- Popanda inu, kumwetulira kumatha ndipo chisangalalo chimatha.
- Nthawi zolakalaka zimatalika mukalibe.